From the Book: Divorce Amicably
This is a chapter summary from Chapter 6 of  Divorce Amicably, a guide to navigating separation with dignity and cooperation.
Chapter 6 Author: Tracy Ann Moore-Grant
I have represented clients and practiced exclusively in the area of family law since 2002. In 2019, I made the decision to be a non-litigation family law attorney. I am a passionate believer that parties, not the court, are in the best position to come up with solutions to their family law issues. The court system is designed as an adversarial system to pit parties against one another, say negative things about one another, increase cost and animosity and leave parties and children broken...
Summary from Chapter 6
In Chapter 6, Tracy Ann Moore-Grant explores the critical decision divorcing couples face when considering whether to pursue fault-based divorce grounds. She traces the evolution of divorce law in America, from the days when proving fault was the only path to dissolution to today's no-fault options. With expert insight, Moore-Grant examines why, despite the availability of no-fault divorce in every state, some spouses still feel compelled to "make the other pay" through fault allegations.
The chapter delves into the practical realities of pursuing fault grounds, revealing that over 90% of divorce cases settle outside court without litigating fault. Moore-Grant offers a balanced perspective on when fault allegations might be strategically valuable in negotiations versus when they simply increase conflict and cost without meaningful benefit. Her guidance helps readers understand the crucial question: "Is the juice worth the squeeze?"
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Who Needs This Chapter
This chapter is essential reading for anyone contemplating divorce who believes their spouse's behavior contributed to the marriage breakdown. If you're wondering whether to "make them pay" for infidelity, addiction issues, or other harmful conduct, Moore-Grant's experienced perspective will help you make decisions based on practical outcomes rather than emotional reactions.
Don't navigate these complex waters alone. "Divorce Amicably" offers clear-eyed guidance without judgment, helping you understand all your options while avoiding costly mistakes. Whether you ultimately pursue fault grounds or not, this chapter will equip you with the knowledge to make choices that serve your long-term interests. Pick up a copy today to transform your approach to one of life's most challenging transitions.
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