From the Book: Divorce Amicably
This is a chapter summary from Chapter 6 of Divorce Amicably, a guide to navigating separation with dignity and cooperation.
Chapter 12 Author: Dennis G. Collard
Dennis devotes 100% of his practice to family law and is committed to helping clients navigate divorce and other family law issues in the most healthy and efficient way possible. Dennis offers his clients the benefit 20 years of legal experience and a compassionate but realistic approach to problem solving.
Dennis is rated “AV Preeminent” by Martindale-Hubbell’s peer and judicial review process. For eleven consecutive years, he has been recognized by Atlanta Magazine as one of the top family law attorneys in Georgia (annual Super Lawyers edition).
Chapter 12: LGBTQIA+ Divorce Summary
For LGBTQIA+ individuals, divorce carries unique challenges that the traditional legal system often fails to understand or address with dignity. In this groundbreaking chapter, family law attorney Dennis G. Collard illuminates the intersection of divorce law and LGBTQIA+ rights, acknowledging that marriage equality only became nationwide law in 2015—meaning many long-term relationships face complex legal questions about pre-Obergefell assets and parental rights. Collard addresses the harsh reality that many LGBTQIA+ people cannot rely on family support during divorce because their families never supported their union, making an already difficult process exponentially harder.
Drawing from real cases and deep expertise, Collard demonstrates how the Amicable Divorce Process provides a safe, private alternative to courtroom battles where intimate details become public record and centuries of legal prejudice can influence outcomes. He reveals how traditional litigation can weaponize legal technicalities—particularly around parenthood and property division—while showing how a respectful, out-of-court process protects both parties' dignity and rights. This chapter offers hope and practical solutions for LGBTQIA+ couples navigating divorce, whether they're dealing with delayed legal marriages, transitioning partners, non-traditional parenting arrangements, or the absence of gender role assumptions that typically guide family law.
Key Takeaways from Chapter 12
Who Should Read This Chapter
This chapter is essential for any LGBTQIA+ person considering or facing divorce, especially those whose relationships began before marriage equality, those with complex parenting arrangements, or anyone concerned about bias in the traditional court system. It's equally valuable for allies, family members, and friends supporting someone through an LGBTQIA+ divorce who want to understand the unique challenges and provide meaningful support.
Whether you're worried about losing your children because you're not the biological parent, concerned about dividing decades of shared assets when you were only "legally" married for a few years, or facing the added complexity of coming out or transitioning during divorce, Collard provides the guidance and reassurance you need. This chapter speaks directly to those who fear the legal system won't understand or respect their family structure, offering a dignified alternative that celebrates rather than challenges who you are.
Get your copy of "Divorce Amicably" today and discover how to navigate divorce with dignity, privacy, and respect—because your family deserves a process that honors your truth and protects your future.
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