From the Book: Divorce Amicably
This is a chapter summary from Chapter 6 of Divorce Amicably, a guide to navigating separation with dignity and cooperation.
Chapter 7 Author: Tracy Ann Moore-Grant
I have represented clients and practiced exclusively in the area of family law since 2002. In 2019, I made the decision to be a non-litigation family law attorney. I am a passionate believer that parties, not the court, are in the best position to come up with solutions to their family law issues. The court system is designed as an adversarial system to pit parties against one another, say negative things about one another, increase cost and animosity and leave parties and children broken...
Chapter 7 Summary: Understanding Divorce Options in an Adversarial System
In Chapter 7 of Divorce Amicably by Tracy Ann Moore-Grant, readers are introduced to the adversarial legal system prevalent in the United States, Canada, and the United Kingdom, where opposing parties present their cases to an impartial judge who makes binding decisions. The chapter highlights the limitations of this system in family law, as it often escalates conflict by requiring spouses to emphasize negative aspects of each other, which can hinder healthy post-divorce co-parenting. Moore-Grant contrasts this with the inquisitorial system used in some countries, where judges actively seek the truth, and introduces the Amicable Divorce Process as a low-conflict alternative that empowers couples to resolve disputes outside the courtroom, fostering resolution over confrontation.
The chapter outlines three distinct divorce approaches: uncontested, amicable, and traditional (contested). Each is explored in terms of cost, time, and conflict level, with the Amicable Divorce Network (ADN) presented as a resource for finding resolution-focused professionals. Moore-Grant emphasizes the importance of choosing an attorney aligned with your desired divorce path, whether it’s the streamlined uncontested route, the cooperative amicable process, or the litigation-heavy contested approach. The chapter serves as a guide for couples to make informed decisions about their divorce process, highlighting the benefits of minimizing conflict and the role of professional guidance in achieving fair outcomes.
Key Takeaways from Chapter 7
Who Should Read Chapter 7 and Why You Need This Book
Chapter 7 of Divorce Amicably is a must-read for anyone facing divorce or contemplating their options, particularly those who want to avoid the emotional and financial toll of a contentious legal battle. Whether you’re a couple seeking a peaceful resolution, a parent prioritizing healthy co-parenting, or someone navigating complex financial disputes, this chapter provides clarity on how to approach divorce thoughtfully. Tracy Ann Moore-Grant’s expertise as a divorce attorney shines through, offering practical insights into navigating the legal system while keeping your goals in focus.
Pick up a copy of Divorce Amicably to discover how to take control of your divorce process with confidence. This book is your roadmap to understanding your options, minimizing conflict, and achieving a fair outcome with the support of professionals who prioritize resolution. Visit divorceamicably.com to learn more about the Amicable Divorce Network and start your journey toward a less stressful divorce today.
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