From the Book: Divorce Amicably
This is a chapter summary from Chapter 6 of Divorce Amicably, a guide to navigating separation with dignity and cooperation.
Chapter 68 Author: Chloe Oudiz
I am a certified divorce coach (CDC), supporting people in divorcing and co-parenting with less conflict. I will support you in preparing a clearly defined negotiation position for discussions with your spouse, so you can reach an acceptable agreement out of court.
Chloe Oudiz
Certified Divorce Coach (CDC)
The Divorce and Separation Coach
United Kingdom
The Challenge of Long-Distance Parenting
Co-parenting is never simple, but when parents live far apart, the complexity multiplies. Informal agreements can quickly fall apart under stress. A written parenting plan serves as a reliable foundation—a “Plan A” you can always return to when disputes arise.
This does not mean the plan is inflexible. Rather, it creates clarity and prevents constant renegotiation. By agreeing in advance on travel, communication, and involvement, both parents—and most importantly, the child—benefit from stability and reduced conflict.
What Makes a Long-Distance Parenting Plan Work
Crafting a long-distance parenting plan requires attention to detail. It’s not enough to cover holiday visits or school breaks; families must address every part of co-parenting that distance makes harder.
Avoiding Common Pitfalls
Even well-meaning parents can fall into traps. Common mistakes include vague agreements, overloading children with travel, or failing to adapt the plan as kids grow. A successful plan prioritizes the child’s well-being above parental convenience and commits both parents to consistent communication.
Secure Your Parenting Journey
Long-distance parenting requires strategy, not improvisation. Divorce Amicably walks you through the tools and insights you need to create workable, child-centered parenting plans. Get your copy today and take the first step toward building stability across any distance.
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