From the Book: Divorce Amicably
This is a chapter summary from Chapter 6 of  Divorce Amicably, a guide to navigating separation with dignity and cooperation.
Chapter 31 Author: Tori E. Owens
With fifteen years' experience in North Georgia working as a children's advocate and parent educator to caregivers and their children impacted by trauma, abuse and violence, Tori translates that knowledge to her role as therapist, parent coordinator, and registered neutral. She is committed to helping parents prioritize the needs of their children and respectfully create practical and effective parenting plans.
Summary
Chapter 31, Intimate Partner Violence, written by counselor Tori E. Owens, addresses one of the most difficult but critical realities some people face in the divorce process: abuse within a relationship. The chapter explains what intimate partner violence (IPV) means, the many forms it can take, and the importance of understanding it when approaching divorce. Rather than glossing over the subject, Owens emphasizes awareness, candid discussions with legal professionals, and the necessity of proceeding with caution when safety is at risk.
The chapter also explores types of IPV, risk factors that increase lethality, and the urgent importance of safety planning before separation. By providing practical considerations, checklists, and available resources, the author highlights both the dangers of leaving an abusive partner and the concrete steps a person can take to protect themselves and their family.
Key Takeaways
Who This Chapter is For
This chapter is written for anyone facing divorce where abuse may be present, as well as friends, family, or professionals supporting them. If you or someone you know is in this situation, Chapter 31 offers clarity, validation, and direction without judgment. Divorce Amicably goes beyond legal steps—it acknowledges the human reality of separation and provides tools for safety and healing. Picking up this book could give you or someone you care about the information needed to move forward with both caution and confidence.
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