"Grounded Response Method" for Successful Co-Parenting w/ Jay Skibbens
Episode Overview: Tools for Navigating Co-Parenting After Divorce
In the first episode of Season 3 of the Amicable Divorce Network podcast, host Tracy Ann Moore-Grant sits down with co-parenting coach Jay Skibbens for an in-depth conversation about the realities and complexities of co-parenting after divorce.
What's Covered in This Episode
Together, they explore the emotional challenges parents often face during and after separation, the importance of setting clear boundaries, and the need for child-focused decision-making in every stage of the co-parenting journey. Jay shares his personal experiences and professional insights, offering listeners a thoughtful look at how to navigate the day-to-day dynamics that come with raising children across two households.
Key Themes and Takeaways
The discussion also touches on understanding emotions and managing expectations — both your own and your co-parent's. Jay and Tracy dig into how certain labels, such as "narcissism," can shape (and sometimes complicate) co-parenting relationships, and they share practical tips for recognizing triggers, responding rather than reacting, and fostering healthier communication over time.
Whether you're newly separated or years into co-parenting, this conversation offers grounded, actionable perspective for building a more peaceful path forward.
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