From the Book: Divorce Amicably
This is a chapter summary from Chapter 6 of Divorce Amicably, a guide to navigating separation with dignity and cooperation.
Chapter 17 Author: Stephanie Robins
With over 20 years experience as a clinical social worker and family therapist, and as a graduate of University of Alabama specializing in Children, Adolescents, and Families, she is currently serving as private practitioner working with a broad spectrum of clients. Her areas of expertise are in Anxiety Disorders, ADHD Interventions, Infertility/Postpartum, Marital/Relationship, Play Therapy, Grief/Loss, Divorce Adjustment, & Parent Education.
In addition to being a prominent relationship and family therapist, Stephanie Robins, LCSW has presented at National conferences and to general audiences speaking on the topics of Parent Education, Anxiety Interventions with Children, Grief/Loss, Play Therapy, Divorce/Stepfamilies, and Anger/Stress Management.
Chapter 17: The Role of Mental Health Professionals
Even the most amicable divorce triggers powerful emotions that can derail negotiations, damage co-parenting relationships, and lead to decisions you'll regret for years. In this essential chapter, licensed clinical social worker Stephanie Robins reveals why mental health support isn't just for "difficult" divorces—it's the hidden key to achieving truly peaceful resolutions. Drawing from decades of experience, she demonstrates how mental health professionals serve as the crucial bridge between emotional turmoil and rational decision-making, preventing amicable intentions from collapsing under the weight of unprocessed feelings.
Robins unveils the comprehensive ecosystem of mental health support available during divorce, from discernment counseling that helps couples make the stay-or-go decision, to divorce coaches who keep you focused during overwhelming legal proceedings, to parent coordinators who transform high-conflict co-parenting into cooperative partnerships. She reveals how these professionals work behind the scenes with your legal and financial teams, providing emotional insights that prevent negotiations from exploding and ensuring financial decisions aren't driven by fear or revenge. Most importantly, this chapter shows how the right mental health support transforms divorce from a destructive ending into a foundation for emotional stability and future thriving.
Key Takeaways
Who Should Read This Chapter
This chapter is crucial for anyone committed to an amicable divorce but struggling with unexpected emotional challenges—the anger that surprises you, the sadness that overwhelms you, or the anxiety that keeps you awake. It's equally vital for parents worried about their children's emotional wellbeing, couples whose "friendly" divorce keeps hitting communication roadblocks, and individuals who intellectually want peace but emotionally want revenge.
If you're wondering whether you're "bad enough" to need help, finding yourself stuck on decisions that should be simple, or watching your amicable intentions crumble under emotional pressure, Robins provides the permission and guidance you need to seek support. This chapter speaks to those who view therapy as weakness, showing instead how mental health support is the ultimate strategic advantage in achieving the peaceful, fair divorce you originally envisioned.
Get your copy of "Divorce Amicably" today and discover how mental health professionals transform good intentions into successful outcomes—because wanting an amicable divorce isn't enough without the emotional tools to achieve it.
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